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Seeking The Right Heart,..Tired Of Being Single.Need A Serious Compaionship
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Hello Sweetheart,
Its a great pleasure to share what happenned to me with you since you care to know about my present predicament but i am hoping that i wont scare you away easily because i am already exposed to critism and opposition but aint feeling any pressure on myself because i know that its just to strengthen my personality so that when greater responsibities comes,i wont crack.
I did some thinking earlier in the day and i have come to this assumption that there are two kind of men on this planet we are both living inside of right now...You are either Extroverts: Friendlier, sociable, easy-going and communicate with ease and mixes with people easily AND on the other hand are Introverts: Not good mixers,they are reserved not too sociable and sometimes want things done in the oldway but thats okay with me.Most are always Shy and hardly find comfort in the presence of a woman,well in which ever group of the above you belong to,i want you to know that you are a special being because we are all Unique in our own different ways and i adore you for who you are..
Take note of this,never you mistake good appearance for good qualities because Physiological expenditure is a superficial way of self experession.People who incline towards physical love accomplish nothing at all so i dont want you to be deceived in any way but i want you to know tht everything i am sharing with you on here is what i have experienced myself and thats what led me into my current situation. is what happenned to me since you wanna know how i ended up Nigeria,I lost my parent years ago and ever since then,life has been unbearable for me because i have no one to care about my well being ..What happenned to me was Fate so i dont think that i do have any other choice than to accept things in whatever way they come towards me.A Year as an Orphan,i came across a guy(Nigeria by Birth)by the name Benson who wooed me and he told me that he would be intereseted in a relationship with me since i had no one who cares about me and i needed a shoulder i could lay on whenever i am feeling down ,i had to accept is offer after pleading with me for a whole month and guess what???i fell for him so easily because he is so romantic,I hope you dont mind me making use of that word.
He was my everything and we both love each other so passionately that we cant do without seeing one anoher everyday.A Year into our relationship,he proposed to me marriage to me and i accepted instantly since this is the dream of everylady,I was so over joyed that i had to share this good news with my best friend by the name Cecilia,she was so happy for me and she wish me best of luck with him.He(Benson)told me that we will be travelling to Nigeria because he wants his parent to meet me before we both got married and i have to accept since he said that its part of there tradition but i told him that my best friend will be accompanning us both even though he has never met her for once.One week later,i had cecilia meet with benson but what i notice on that very day is that my Ex cant stop looking into Cecilia's eye's,i never knew that something terrible is going to happen afterwards but i never think towards that..How i wish i could turn back the hand of time but i guess that aint possible so right now,i wanna make every minutes of my life count.
Anyway back to my story,I,Cecilia and benson travelled down to Nigeria for the wedding ceremony and i received the greatest shock of my life when i woke up one morning and found out that benson has left with cecilia but abadoned me in this hotel.On the table was a note that read thus**I am sorry for doing this to you sweetheart but i just cant resist the beauty of your best friend so thats why i had to go with her to show my parent that she is the one i wanna get married to**.After reading this strange letter over and over again,i stood amazed and i take a proper look at myself if i aint beautiful enough but i guess there is nothing i can do to what just happenned...I waited patiently for few weeks hoping that Benson was trying to Joke around with me because he knows that i have no other person but him.One evening while watching one of there Local TV News down here, a news was made that a Couple who wedded just recently both die in a fatal accident and this made me remember what happenned to my family.The Pictures of this wedded couple was paraded on the Screen and guess who it was???...BENSON AND CECILIA.
I felt so empty inside of me because i was hoping that they will both come back and apologize to me in person but i guess this cant happen anymore because they are both dead.The situation was bad before now but at the moment,its worst from bad.Sometimes,women consider themselves losers if they aren't having the most blissfull of affairs with men but from what i have learnt concerning what happenned to me,i dont think that i have any reason to be angry because i know that no being is perfect and moreover thats why i chose to share my story with you because i have this huge feeling inside of me that have this believe that TWO CAN ACCOMPLISH MORE.Do you agree with that?...
Anyway,thats the reason why i am stucked here right now is due to the Bills i am owing the hotel where i am residing right now.Please dont feel offended by me asking you for help because i know that we are just getting to know one another on here but i will be more greatfull if you can just lend me your helping hands so that i can get myself out of this situation that i got myself into all in the name of Love.
Thanks for taking your time to go through this email of mine and i will be hoping to have a positive responce from you soon.
Sharon Smith
Hello xxxxx ....
I am very thankful for the sweet response. I am glad to recieved your wonderful respond and I really appeciate your respond. How are you doing today and how was the nature of the atmosphere condition today. . I read everything you had said to me about your interests and how you view love and I need to say this I couldn't agree more with you. You seem to be a really special person and very heart felt. And I like that very much about you. As for me I am looking to meet someone who is genuine and understands that life is better sharing it with someone special not just anyone but someone special dear to your heart and a person you wish to grow old with ....
You really surprised me so much , but im confused a little if all this truth . I hope this is real, if it is real I'm interested in all what you wrote. I believe we have something in common. I want you to know that i really like your profile an am interested in meeting you in person soon just to get to know each other . I can you have a good personality, and I love it. I believe we have a lot to share in common, you know what? Is good to get what you want at the right purpose of God. And I pray to get the right person, someone at the right time that will fill my heart with joy and happiness. I think is good to express your feelings for someone you love deeply . Someone that will be straightforward and open mind. Actually I had my heart broken once and I don't want to happened to me no more cauze I had the experience once recently. I pray never experience this in whole life any more Cause Its cause pains alot...
You seem to be very special. I am not bad looking at all, but i think you are cute. Could you overlook the difference in looks? A lot of people say it isn't important and then they meet you and they change their mind. Like I said, I am not bad looking, it's just that people say i look like a model. I get lonely living alone and I want to share my life, my interests, my love with someone special (someone with an open and warm, genuine heart). Since you have had so much grief, your heart is probably true, you are probably very empathetic and sympathetic to others. You are probably REAL like me. . I am the type of woman that is understanding and I would comfort you when you need it. I too know what it is like to suffer a lot.....
Well, actually am looking for someone, kind, honest, loyal, caring truthful, trustworthy, gentle. Definitely passionate. I also love to fall in love with someone, like you. I simply want someone to share it with. Family is very important to me, as is the idea of marriage. I am searching for someone who shares the following qualities with me. Thoughtful, loving, goal oriented, along with sense of humor. I love to laugh and smile. I also love to read, cook, and travel. My interests are many. I honest, intelligent, loyal, affectionate, easy going, romantic, soft-spoken and sensual. I'm romantic, caring, and much more! I'm "crazy" about all pets. I love pats especially dogs and cats. I love nature and I like to travel. I like books and reading Bible. I looking for a partner for life. Are you the one....? Appearances are important but more importantly: Are you an honest, caring, loving guy.....? If the Real answer is "Yes...
I seeking a serious long-term relationship and more. Someone special to capture my heart and knows how to handle it with care, one who will cherish me and be willing to share life's greatest joys and sorrows. Someone who's willing to spoil, pamper and love me unconditionally, whom is kind, sincere, honest, passionate, loyal, sense of humor, loving and want s a lifetime of passion., so only serious inquiries will be accepted.. Am looking for someone to love as well, Capture my heart. Someone kind and affectionate, fun and optimistic, motivated and active. A real person, who likes himself and is comfortable with who they are, even if not where they are. Someone who can keep up with me, challenge me and inspire me. And who is intelligent, has ideas, may be creative and has needs and expectations to be fulfilled. I'm looking for my soul mate to share life dreams with, someone who still believes in romance, fun, and is a true gentleman at heart. But I find it difficult to get someone that will be able to capture my heart, win my heart. A man that will wipe off my tears and sorrows forever.
Someone that will be able to bring me back on my feet. a man that will be able to bring out my precious gold, that has been threw into ocean. Because my life is full of tragedy. I am going having a hardship time right now. I went through your profile I can see you have a very good personality and we can compatible. But I find out that we are 99% compatible, and the only 1% missing is that the distance between us no are far.I am truly sorry to telling this sadness story, I know you might find it hard to believe me. I just want you to know that am an Orphan , I don't have anyone else on earth to count and lean on.. No relatives, no Friends for some reasons. I lost my parents years ago in katina Hurricane, so i have no body to take of me, I do take care of myself and personal life.. I m sad and devastated because am stuck and trapped down in W. African country .. I'm having a critical problem here in African.. I 've been facing and going through some hardship and frustrations. I'm to tell you this because I know you want to meet me someday and I just have to be honest and sincere with you from this stage...
The reason I can be so open and honest is because I am a very secure woman. I know who I am and I NEVER try to be something I am not. Not at any time with anyone. I have found through much searching, exactly who I am, and I am not afraid to show it. I am not phony or fake. I don't care what others think, it doesn't matter to me. I am gentle and loving and I like romance and love songs. If other woman make fun, it's just because they are insecure and jealous...But life is too short to go around being tough all the time. I try to be sweet and charming MOST of the time. That is who I am and I am proud of it. I love the Lord, I love myself (wouldn't want to be anyone else), and therefore, I can share love openly with others. ...
I want you to know that am currently not in the state now, I'm stuck and stranded In West. Africa country now I Now You Might Be little confused to hear this from me But I have to be completely Honest with you Cause I dont want you think I lied to you along the Line.. Actually I want You To know that am having a terrible problem in African Now , I don't If you can be the right One to Help me Back to state But I would love to Tell you more about It Cause there Must be a reason why I am here and why I can't help myself back Home....
I am seriously lookng for someone that I might fall in love with because I need a true Love.. I need a matured man that will be there for me. I really need someone that will always comfort me with sweet words.. Will you be able to love me for the rest of my life ? I would like to get to you know more better if you truly interested in me , It seems we have something together in common . I am not one to ask many questions about a person. People can tell you anything they want too. I think that actions are real so in my humble opinion participating in activities together sharing interests with one another is good foundation to get to know a person. What is your feelings about getting to know a person?
Anyways I do hope this letter finds you well babe and I truly hope we take this opportunity to get to know each other... .
I genuinely hope to hear back from you real soon .
Sincerely
Sharon Smith
Hello xxxxx,
I am happy to read from you i will also like to know more about you ...you are free to ask anything that you wanna know about me i will answer you back ....
Hope to hear from you soon.....
Selina
