Bertha (can I add my 'Welcome' here?) - don't be confused! If you have his email address, simply write to him from a 'safe' (gmail, hushmail etc) address, saying you got his email, you are interested in learning more etc, etc!
Once he gets back into his spiel (as he undoubtedly will), just play him along! The moment he asks for money - for whatever reason - let your inventiveness take over!
At 419eater.com, you can find all sorts of reasons why you can't send money, forms he has to complete etc . . . I have had one on the string for almost 2 months now & I have yet to ask for fotos holding signs, having a picture of themselves with pineapples under their arms - whatever! All this to show their 'sincerity' towards you!
You could also drop their name & email address into the appropriate forum (or here, if you want) & someone is bound to take up the challenge
